During New Year's, my brother sent a video saying his second child is three years old, a girl, weighing over 40 kilograms and 1.1m tall. She loves to eat various meat-containing foods and rice, noodles, and sugar, but doesn't like vegetables. He mentioned wanting to check her pituitary gland secretion.
When I showed him the parrot, he noticed that the parrot could step onto his hand and found it quite interesting, asking how that was achieved.
It also relates to food; if it doesn't step onto the hand, I starve it for about 12 hours, then hold some millet in my hand. The hunger overcomes the fear, and it steps onto my hand to eat, gradually getting used to eating from my hand. Eventually, even when there's no food in my hand, it won't be afraid to stand on me in any position.
My child is the same; if he misbehaves, I starve him and don't let him eat. If he doesn't eat vegetables, then he doesn't eat anything at all. First, he goes hungry until he decides to eat.
My brother and sister-in-law are both busy working to earn money and have hired a nanny to take care of the child. They probably won't spoil the child as much as we, the relatively free biological parents, do.
The nanny takes care of the child without crying or fussing, providing good food and drink, and as long as there are no accidents, she has pretty much completed her KPI assessment.
If you suggest the nanny use hunger methods, physical punishment, scolding, or yelling, others might think the nanny is the biological mother.
But can you get used to that?
You say the money isn't enough; hiring a more professional one is essentially getting the KPI assessment to closely align with parental education principles, but there will always be a gap, especially when they are young.
You say orphanages also produce talented individuals. I haven't researched this, but I guess sensitivity and tension carry through life, which is why they excel.
As they grow older, children become less obedient. Obedience and compliance are just surface-level efforts.
I won't say more. I'm planning to buy a 戒棍戒尺. Using slippers to hit just doesn't feel right.
It seems the second child isn't afraid of hunger anymore.